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Monday, June 15, 2009

Death


Death: " the cause or occasion of loss of life"
Since we feel our selves that we are enough able to think over the issues ....we asked to our parents that "what is death?" instead of giving the answer, our parents thought the true explanation would be shocking, for our child's wellness, it should be explain in a manner by which he should have love for life and charm to live for long. that's how he will grow and make them proud.
So as i had the same question about death to ma parents. but truth is truth which always leads u to harsh and tough reality of this world.
First time a saw a dead body when i was around 12years old near to my home a person was fall down from a mango tree...some how i made possible to see him, ignoring the advices of elders in my home. A body of man was laid on the earth almost 15-20 people circled around the body of dead man. i couldn't make my understanding accurately with the death. "what is death" question remain the same but yes i had seen a dead body. hw it looks non-dynamic...for instance like sleeping.
And what is aftermath of the death even it was remained to understand. probably that was the only way by which i can get some help to understand the death. I admitted to college for graduate course and the life began, it was expanding to observe itself replicating on others. i attended couple of death ceremonies of relatives of my batch mates. probably i was enough unfortunate that non of my relatives receive bliss of death when i became young enough.....but i tried to recall my memories that when my grandmother died my father was crying just after receiving the telegram at the door and, my mom was trying to make him calm just like holding a child.
Some how death is nothing but separation from a physical body with whom, we lived for long, instead we can say that separation forever which we don't like to accept. And death ceremony is just a tribute to his attachment with different customs.